Today, we’re diving into a topic that’s crucial for every parent – raising confident, resilient teens in today’s complex world. I’m thrilled to introduce you to Brooke Romney, a parenting expert and writer who’s transforming the way we approach the teenage years with wisdom, empathy, and practical strategies.
In this episode, we discuss:
- Brooke’s journey from mommy blogger to teen parenting expert
- The key to building genuine confidence in teens
- How to make parenting decisions from a place of love, not fear
- Strategies for empowering teens instead of rescuing them
- The importance of character-based compliments
- Navigating social challenges and building social skills
- Balancing empathy with accountability in teen parenting
Key Takeaways:
- True confidence comes from competence: Encourage your teens to do hard things and develop real skills.
- Empower, don’t rescue: Allow your teens to face challenges and learn from their experiences.
- Focus on character, not just achievements: Praise your teens for who they are, not just what they do.
- Model growth and resilience: Show your teens how to handle feedback and overcome obstacles.
- Make decisions from love, not fear: Choose parenting strategies that empower your teen for the long-term.
Quotes to Remember: “Confidence doesn’t come because you know you’re the best, or you’ve got it taken care of. In fact, I’m probably just at, I’m probably less confident now, but I’m okay that I don’t know everything.”
“As parents, if we look at what’s true, for one, like, you really have to do that, otherwise they’re not going to believe anything you say. So, look for what’s true, and complement what is part of their character, and something that others can’t take away.”
Action Steps:
- Reflect on your parenting decisions. Are they driven by fear and guilt, or love and empowerment?
- Identify opportunities for your teen to develop competence in areas that interest them.
- Practice giving character-based compliments to your teen this week.
- Have an open conversation with your teen about a challenge they’re facing, focusing on empowering them to find solutions.
- Implement a family routine that allows your teen to contribute meaningfully to your household.
Remember, parenting teens doesn’t have to be a constant struggle. By focusing on building true confidence, empowering your teens to face challenges, and making decisions from a place of love, you can create a strong, positive relationship that will last well beyond the teenage years.
Want to dive deeper into confident teen parenting? Check out Brooke’s Instagram @brookeromnywrites for daily doses of wisdom, practical tips, and real-life parenting insights.
Until next time, keep believing in your teens and in yourself as a parent. You’re doing important work, even when it feels challenging. Trust in your instincts, stay connected with your teen, and watch as your confidence – and theirs – grows stronger every day.
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Remember, you are doing an incredible job. Give yourself some grace, lean into your calling, and watch as your life unfolds into the most beautiful collage you could ever imagine.